Healing Attachment Wounds

LOCATION

Santa Fe, New Mexico

DATES

11 - 16 November, 2025

PRICE

$1,050
Liberate your heart

Personal development and training course

Being in close relationships calls forth the best in us: love, realness, pleasure, presence and joy.

Relating intimately, be it with partners, friends, family or community, is also a challenging, often triggering journey. The stronger the pull toward another human, the deeper the longing to be seen and met by them, the more habits and strategies can take hold - old acquaintances designed to keep us safe. But that sense of safety may limit our pontaneity, joy, authenticity and love - all natural expressions of the heart.

In your relationships, have you noticed that you may either try to change yourself or the other to get your needs met, or that you dismiss your relational hopes and wants altogether?

A 5-day retreat with additional training day option

In close relationships do you tend to: 

  • Stay on guard to avoid being dominated or controlled by another’s intentions?
  • Fear losing the other if you truly follow your own perception and needs?
  • Worry about being inadequate or wrong, leading you to constantly improve yourself?
  • Fear feeling unwanted or unloved, so you give too much of yourself?
  • Push yourself to achieve in order to prove your worth?
  • Intensify your feelings, as if they define your depth and uniqueness?
  • Prefer retreating into thought, figuring life out in your head to avoid helplessness?
  • Seek security and loyalty to compensate for feeling unsupported and unsafe?
  • Fear missing out or being trapped, compelling you to chase the next thing?

These are strategies we acquired early in life to gain appreciation and love, or to minimize feelings of shame, fear, and pain.

Healing Attachment Wounds offers a way beyond dated habits. With respect for what has brought us here, we soften into who we truly are. We open to embodied self-love, empowerment, and to meeting ourselves and others with fresh understanding and creativity.

Healing Attachment Wounds

Retreat Leaders

The retreat leaders work alongside a highly experienced team of facilitators.

Gita Wagner

After life changing events in her early twenties, Gita began studying somato-emotional healing modalities including Gestalt, Somatic Experiencing, parts work and family constellations. She has been offering residential retreats and trainings around meditation, somatic and archetypal healing, developmental and transgenerational trauma, and women’s and relational freedom, since her late twenties.

Healing attachment wounds

Book your retreat

2:30pm
November 11th
November 16th
Healing attachment wounds

For Retreat Participants (Five Full Days)

In this retreat, you’ll learn tools to navigate relational vulnerability and autonomy in a loving, empowered way. Your nervous system will learn to accommodate your current feelings and needs, enabling you to recognize what you want to invite into your (love) life. From this base, you can respond wholeheartedly—yet with sovereignty—to who and what matters most to you.

This is a non-residential retreat. If you are travelling to participate you will need to arrange your own accommodation in the area.

This retreat is designed as a Path of Love Introductory Course, as well as a Graduate Workshop.

The early bird price of $1,050 is valid through 9/14, after which the program will be $1,150 Full Price. Limited financial aid is available for this program. Please write to ixchel@pathretreats.com to apply.

We are offering 15 minute Discovery Calls with Gita to learn more about this retreat. Please write to ixchel@pathretreats.com to schedule. 

$1,050 (Early Bird) Per person
Healing attachment wounds

The Somato-Relational Training (Six Full Days)

Healing Attachment Wounds offers tools for relational health, rooted in 35 years of experience in somatic and developmental trauma healing. It draws on the principles of IPNB (Interpersonal Neurobiology), Somatic Experiencing, attachment theory, Reich’s five personality development stages, and mindfulness. 

You will gain embodied understanding and somatic tools that expand your capacity to address clients’ core wounds. Through the training process, you may discover deeper healing within yourself and uncover the stance needed to guide clients as they create coherent relational fields that truly support their lives and needs.

This is a non-residential retreat. If you are travelling to participate you will need to arrange your own accommodation in the area.

This retreat is designed as a Path of Love Introductory Course as well as a Graduate Workshop. If you are interested in participating as a trainee, please reach out to ixchel@pathretreats.com for further info regarding the curriculum.

The early bird price of $1,280 is valid through 9/14, after which the program will be $1,380 Full Price. Limited financial aid is available for this program. Please write to ixchel@pathretreats.com to apply.

We are offering 15 minute Discovery Calls with Gita to learn more about this retreat. Please write to ixchel@pathretreats.com to schedule. 

$1,280 (Early Bird) Per person

Life changing experience. Never felt so connected, safe and seen. Everyone should do Path of Love to grow into who they want to be.

Katia Philips - Path of Love participant